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How to Start When You’re Scared: Stop Waiting and Take Action

Why You’re Stuck (And Why You Keep Lying to Yourself) Let’s cut the crap. You’re not “too busy, waiting for the right time.” You’re afraid. Afraid of failing, what people will say. Afraid of how hard it might actually be. You’re stuck in that familiar loop: “I’ll start tomorrow.” “Next week will be better.” “New year, new me!” But weeks turn into months. Months turn into years. And deep down, you know it. The real story? You’re scared you’ll start… and then quit. Or worse—you’re scared you’ll start and still suck at it. Personal Experience: From Paralysis to Progress I’m not writing this from a pedestal. I’m writing it from the trenches. For years, I was the guy who couldn’t start. I told myself every excuse in the book: “I just need one more book, one more podcast, one more secret hack, and THEN I’ll be ready.” Spoiler alert: That “one more thing” never came. I consumed thousands of hours of content. Read dozens...

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Why You Keep Failing (And How to Fix It)

Ever feel like no matter how hard you try, you’re stuck? You set goals. You get excited. You grind for a bit… Then something happens. You lose momentum. You fall off. And suddenly, you’re back to square one. 🔹 Still out of shape.🔹 Still not making progress.🔹 Still watching others succeed while you’re stuck. Why does this keep happening? And more importantly—how do you fix it? I’ve been there. Over and over. But after years of trial, error, and frustration, I realized something: 👉 You don’t need more motivation. You need a system. Motivation Is a Lie Most people think they fail because they lack motivation. They wait for motivation to strike. They say: “I’ll start when I feel ready.” But motivation is unreliable. It comes and goes. The people who actually succeed? They don’t rely on motivation. They have systems. What’s a System? A system is what keeps you moving even when you don’t feel like it. 📌 Motivation says: “I don’t feel like training today.”📌...

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What’s This Blog About?

What’s This Blog About? The year was 2006. I was 13 years old. My cousins made fun of me for being a little chubby—not fat, just a bit rounder than the other kids. My classmates would reach for my cheeks like I was some kind of toddler. And every time they tried, I fought back. That’s when I decided to start working out. I had no equipment, no gym membership—just raw determination. I started with calisthenics. A few months in, my body transformed. I was stronger, leaner, and looked better. At school, kids noticed. My broad shoulders became a talking point. And the same cousins who used to mock me? Now they were asking: "Hey, by the way… what kind of training do you do?" That moment hit me hard. I realized I could change. I could take control. I could become whoever I wanted to be. The Struggle Was Never a Lack of Information Even after getting in shape,...